jokes that were guaranteed to get laughs. There were just enough victories
to keep him motivated and just enough mistakes to keep him working hard.
When you’re starting a new habit, it’s important to keep the behavior as
easy as possible so you can stick with it even when conditions aren’t
perfect. This is an idea we covered in detail while discussing the 3rd Law of
Behavior Change.
Once a habit has been established, however, it’s important to continue to
advance in small ways. These little improvements and new challenges keep
you engaged. And if you hit the Goldilocks Zone just right, you can achieve
a
flow state.
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A flow state is the experience of being “in the zone” and fully immersed
in an activity. Scientists have tried to quantify this feeling. They found that
to achieve a state of flow, a task must be roughly 4 percent beyond your
current ability. In real life it’s typically not feasible to quantify the difficulty
of an action in this way, but the core idea of the Goldilocks Rule remains:
working on challenges of just manageable difficulty—something on the
perimeter of your ability—seems crucial for maintaining motivation.
Improvement requires a delicate balance. You need to regularly search
for challenges that push you to your edge while continuing to make enough
progress to stay motivated. Behaviors need to remain novel in order for
them to stay attractive and satisfying. Without variety, we get bored. And
boredom is perhaps the greatest villain on the quest for self-improvement.
