Atomic habits

Ed Latimore, a boxer and writer from Pittsburgh, benefited from a similar
strategy without knowing it. “Odd realization,” he wrote. “My focus and
concentration goes up just by putting my headphones [on] while writing. I
don’t even have to play any music.” Without realizing it, he was
conditioning himself. In the beginning, he put his headphones on, played
some music he enjoyed, and did focused work. After doing it five, ten,
twenty times, putting his headphones on became a cue that he automatically
associated with increased focus. The craving followed naturally.
Athletes use similar strategies to get themselves in the mind-set to
perform. During my baseball career, I developed a specific ritual of
stretching and throwing before each game. The whole sequence took about
ten minutes, and I did it the same way every single time. While it physically
warmed me up to play, more importantly, it put me in the right mental state.
I began to associate my pregame ritual with feeling competitive and
focused. Even if I wasn’t motivated beforehand, by the time I was done
with my ritual, I was in “game mode.”
You can adapt this strategy for nearly any purpose. Say you want to feel
happier in general. Find something that makes you truly happy—like
petting your dog or taking a bubble bath—and then create a short routine
that you perform every time before you do the thing you love. Maybe you
take three deep breaths and smile.
Three deep breaths. Smile. Pet the dog. Repeat.
Eventually, you’ll begin to associate this breathe-and-smile routine with
being in a good mood. It becomes a cue that means feeling happy. Once
established, you can break it out anytime you need to change your
emotional state. Stressed at work? Take three deep breaths and smile. Sad
about life? Three deep breaths and smile. Once a habit has been built, the
cue can prompt a craving, even if it has little to do with the original
situation.
The key to finding and fixing the causes of your bad habits is to reframe
the associations you have about them. It’s not easy, but if you can
reprogram your predictions, you can transform a hard habit into an
attractive one.
Chapter Summary

The inversion of the 2nd Law of Behavior Change is make it
unattractive.
Every behavior has a surface level craving and a deeper
underlying motive.
Your habits are modern-day solutions to ancient desires.
The cause of your habits is actually the prediction that precedes
them. The prediction leads to a feeling.
Highlight the benefits of avoiding a bad habit to make it seem
unattractive.
Habits are attractive when we associate them with positive
feelings and unattractive when we associate them with negative
feelings. Create a motivation ritual by doing something you enjoy
immediately before a difficult habit.

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