Whenever this happens to me, I try to remind myself of a simple rule:
never miss twice.
If I miss one day, I try to get back into it as quickly as possible. Missing
one workout happens, but I’m not going to miss two in a row. Maybe I’ll
eat an entire pizza, but I’ll follow it up with a healthy meal. I can’t be
perfect, but I can avoid a second lapse. As soon as one streak ends, I get
started on the next one.
The first mistake is never the one that ruins you.
It is the spiral of
repeated mistakes that follows. Missing once is an accident. Missing twice
is the start of a new habit.
This is a distinguishing feature between winners and losers. Anyone can
have a bad performance, a bad workout, or a bad day at work. But when
successful people fail, they rebound quickly.
The breaking of a habit
doesn’t matter if the reclaiming of it is fast.
I think this principle is so important that I’ll stick to it even if I can’t do a
habit as well or as completely as I would like. Too often, we fall into an all-
or-nothing cycle with our habits. The problem is not slipping up; the
problem is thinking that if you can’t
do something perfectly, then you
shouldn’t do it at all.
You don’t realize how valuable it is to just show up on your bad (or busy)
days. Lost days hurt you more than successful days help you. If you start
with $100, then a 50 percent gain will take you to $150. But you only need
a 33 percent loss to take you back to $100. In other words, avoiding a 33
percent loss is just as valuable as achieving a 50 percent gain. As Charlie
Munger says, “The first rule of compounding:
Never interrupt it
unnecessarily.”
This is why the “bad” workouts are often the most important ones.
Sluggish days and bad workouts maintain the compound gains you accrued
from previous good days. Simply doing something—ten squats, five sprints,
a push-up, anything really—is huge. Don’t put up a zero. Don’t let losses
eat into your compounding.
Furthermore, it’s not always about what happens during the workout. It’s
about being the type of person who doesn’t miss workouts. It’s easy to train
when you feel good, but it’s crucial to show up when you don’t feel like it
—even if you do less than you hope. Going
to the gym for five minutes
may not improve your performance, but it reaffirms your identity.
The all-or-nothing cycle of behavior change is just one pitfall that can
derail your habits. Another potential danger—especially if you are using a
habit tracker—is measuring the wrong thing.
