Peace occurs when you don’t turn your observations into problems. The first step in any behavior is observation. You notice a cue, a bit of
information, an event. If you do not desire to act on what you observe, then
you are at peace.
Craving is about wanting to fix everything. Observation without craving
is the realization that you do not need to fix anything. Your desires are not
running rampant. You do not crave a change in state. Your mind does not
generate a problem for you to solve. You’re simply observing and existing.
With a big enough why you can overcome any how. Friedrich
Nietzsche, the German philosopher and poet, famously wrote, “He who has
a why to live for can bear almost any how.” This phrase harbors an
important truth about human behavior. If your motivation and desire are
great enough (that is, why are you are acting), you’ll take action even when
it is quite difficult. Great craving can power great action—even when
friction is high.
Being curious is better than being smart. Being motivated and curious
counts for more than being smart because it leads to action. Being smart
will never deliver results on its own because it doesn’t get you to act. It is
desire, not intelligence, that prompts behavior. As Naval Ravikant says,
“The trick to doing anything is first cultivating a desire for it.”
Emotions drive behavior. Every decision is an emotional decision at
some level. Whatever your logical reasons are for taking action, you only
feel compelled to act on them because of emotion. In fact, people with
damage to emotional centers of the brain can list many reasons for taking
action but still will not act because they do not have emotions to drive them.
This is why craving comes before response. The feeling comes first, and
then the behavior.
